This technique is great for thoroughly cleaning hair & scalp. It also serves as a tutorial on how to detangle natural hair that is medium to long in length. As Naptural85, states this is a tedious process modify it to fit both your hair type and lifestyle. For my hair, I use this process during a co-wash and concentrate on massaging the scalp. Also, I section my hair in 8 sections. Its easier for me to work with. The technique does make your curls pop. You can really moisturize your hair effectively when sectioned which helps with curl definition. Try it out and comment let me know how this works for you.
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Washing Medium to Long Natural Hair-Video
This technique is great for thoroughly cleaning hair & scalp. It also serves as a tutorial on how to detangle natural hair that is medium to long in length. As Naptural85, states this is a tedious process modify it to fit both your hair type and lifestyle. For my hair, I use this process during a co-wash and concentrate on massaging the scalp. Also, I section my hair in 8 sections. Its easier for me to work with. The technique does make your curls pop. You can really moisturize your hair effectively when sectioned which helps with curl definition. Try it out and comment let me know how this works for you.
Winterizing your Hair!!!
Well, its that time again. Time to bundle up. So how do you protect your hair in the winter months. What tools do you need?
Winter Hair Survival Kit:
Sulfate Free/No Subs Shampoo or Cleansing Cream
Creamy Moisturizer
Hair Oil
Deep Conditioning Method
Hot Oil Treatment
Satin pillow case/scarf
Read more
Natural Hair 101 -What Every Women with Natural Hair Needs To Know!!!
Hair Tools
Tools include a wide tooth comb and Denman Brush which optional but I feel necessary. If your hair is short you can very easily manages curls by finger combing.
If your hair is medium length or long you'll need hair clips such as duck bill clips to section the hair for detangling and styling. Hair Accessories are a necessity.
Cleansing
Shampooing with shampoos that contain harsh detergents such as sodium lauryl sulfate or laureth sulfate can be drying and should only be used maybe once a month (if at all). In the meantime you can use baking soda and apple cider vinegar (dilute & rinse well with water) or just use a conditioner for a co-wash. There are some natural shampoos such as glycerin based shampoo or Castile soap but I still do not recommend the use of these products on a daily basis.
As well as cleansing creams such as Curls Cleansing Cream which is very gentle and moisturizes instead of removing natural hair oils. These gentle cleanser can be used daily if you prefered.
Deep Condition
Should be done about once a week or every two weeks with a deep conditioner such as Hair Mayonnaise and/or Olive oil as a hot oil treatment.
Moisturize
Use Shea butter and good a leave-in conditioner I recommend Giovanni products. Creamy moisturizer such as Carol's Daughter Hair Milk is great for all types of hair and a curl aid. I spray a little braid sheen or water with olive oil and vegetable glyerin in my hair daily.
At Night
Make sure you sleep on a satin or silk pillow case or tie your hair up with
satin or silk scarf/bonnet. This is help you retain moisture and keep hair from snagging and then breaking.
Frizz is Not the Enemy
As a natural woman, I loathe frizz. For me, my hair is usually perfect except for the front which usually transforms into a “hot frizzy mess”. The front of my hair that is
1. Hair needs more moisture.
2. Its time to clip hair ends.
3. Hair is damaged.
4. Products are drying the hair.
5. Styling techniques are leaving the hair shaft unsmooth and unmanageable.
In some cases, in climate with extreme humidity for instance it is almost impossible to avoid a little bit of frizzness but it can be minimized by using some of the techniques in the following post: Frizz
Single Strand Knots can result in frizz…read more
Need to laugh? A humorous look at frizz & natural hair…read more
Disadvantage of Being Natural II-Frizz
Frizz
As mentioned in the first part of this post, Disadvantages of Being Natural- What Products to Use. Many agree there are no real disadvantages of naturality just challenges. One very big one that plagues us all is frizz especially in humid H-Town. Frizz can be a result of hair lacking moisture that may or may not be damaged. Here we will discuss tips to avoid frizzy hair that is lacking the adequate amount of moisture. As a result you will see smoother, softer and healthier hair.
No Poo Please
As discussed previously your cleanser or cleansing agent is your foundations and the following product and/or techniques build upon it. If you are a regular reader, you know my rant about the benefits of Noo Poo. I won't go into detail. Co-wash or shampoo with sulfate, silicone and alcohol FREE products. Or cleansing alternatives such as baking soda or castile soap. When it comes to all your product try to keep it all natural...
Condition Those Curls
Your conditioner is equally if not more important than your cleansing agent. It can be used as a cleanser and conditioner or conditioner and leave in or conditioner and styling product. Don't EVER skip your Hair Conditioner. Opt for all natural conditioners and not just the ones that say all natural but read the ingredients. Your conditioner is usually the inital source of moisture added to your hair so choose wisely. Your moisturizing conditions should be water based.
Leave In and Moisturize
Really, do I need to say more. One of the best ways to combat frizz caused by dryness is to use a good leave in conditioner. I use either Cantu Shea Butter Leave In Conditioner or Giovanni Direct Leave In Conditioner but it really depends on the style. Cantu tends to flake or leave a residue if used with a styling product or heavy moisturizer. When it comes to moisturizers one of my fellower bloggers says the kinkier the hair the creamy the moisturizers needs to be and I agree. I recommend unrefined shea butter. I know it can be hard to rub in the hair so you can soften it breaking a piece off and microwaving for about 5-10 sec depending on the size of the piece. You can also whip shea butter with a hand mixer and add an oil or aloe vera gel to maintain the whipped consistence. (My personal recipe for Shealoe)
Drip Dry
I've said it before I will say it again, NEVER towel dry your hair. This only causes frizzness. Drip dry or t-shirt dry. If you have not invest in a hood dryer and you live in cold climates, please do. Drying your hair under a hood dryer is less damaging than blow drying with a diffuser and minimizes shrinkage as well. Partially or completely dry your hair before you step outside or go to sleep allows the style to set in place with smooth defined curls.
Carry a Spray Bottle
When I first heard this I thought it was a little silly but then I tried it. The benefits of regular misting with water are undeniable. Add your fav conditioner or oil and these benefits increase infinitely. Don't believe me try it. Not only will your hair look and feel better but your scalp will as well. In cool climates I only recommend misting if your going to be indoor it can have adverse effects in the cold.
Minimize Gel Use
When it comes to styling products if you use the previous tips you won't depend on gel to keep frizz at bay. Limit your use of gel because even the alcohol free can make hard and dry if used in excess. I encourage styling products such as Miss Jessies's and Kinky Curly Curling Custard. Only a small amount is needed to achieve desired style. These products work with your conditioners and moisturizers to maintain soft and smooth hair. Also don't be afraid to try Hair mousse for curling hair.
Re-Twist and Tie That Head Up
Regardless of how you are currently styling your hair it is imperative that you cover your hair while you sleep with a satin scarf or bonnet. If you don't like to cover your hair invest in a satin pillow case. The satin is smooth and will not pull at the hair or absorb the moister in the hair. If you are wearing a twist or braid out, re-twisting your hair will help to keep your style longer and keep frizz at bay. For more info on re-twisting see here
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Summer, Summer time!!!
Naturalista,
Its summer time, pull out that swimsuit and SPF. Its also time to tweak the hair routine. This is the season the heat, humidity and scorching sun can cause hair damage and not to mention horrible bad hair days . I can't stress enough protect your hair as well as your skin. The sun damage may cause dry hair and split ends. The rays destroy the integrity of the hair decreasing strength and elasticity. This results in breakage, frizzness and faded hair color.
Here are some tips to maintain the health of your beautiful locks.
If you have not already consider using a shampoo alternative. Shampoo alternatives are discussed in "No Poo" post. This method is wonderful for cleaning without stripping the essential oils of the hair and scalp.
There are many products with SPF qualities but one of the best in my opinion is shea butter. It protects hair from the wind, cold and not to mention the sun naturally. It is also a natural sunscreen due to its high vitamin content. For best result use shea butter on wet hair.
The sun's ray can be very damaging to overall integrity of the hair shaft. Deep conditioning is imperative to prevent permnant damage. I recommend "Hair Mayonnaise" or LustraSilk Cholesterol Conditioner. If you have color; deep condition your hair once a week. The current health of your hair determines how often you should deep condition. If your hair is dry and brittle deep condition with heat by sitting under a hooded dryer or wrapping a warm towel around your head about once a week. Here's a list of conditioners.
Hot oil treatments are great for sealing moisture in hair and scalp. If you still experience dryness invest in a creamy moisturizer and/or leave in conditioner.
To minimize frizz and maximize curl definition opt for a t-shirt or drip dry vs. terry bath towels. Using a smooth, microfiber drying surface to optimize smooth hair shafts while still pulling water from the hair.
Trim your ends regularly for natural hair about every 6 months or so.
Style your hair desired.
Daliy Routine
Tie your hair up at night or sleep on a satin pillowcase. You can co-wash or wet your hair daily. Not recommended if you have dry hair and/or scalp instead sprintz with water mixture (more info here) or braid sheen. Style hair as desired.
My Hair Stretching Method
The is a stretching method to minimize shrinkage of two strand twist and twist out. I usually do this at night. I gather all the twist and pull to the back. This pony tail is secured with an elastic ponytail holder. If I'm wear the twist for a week I stretch the first night and mid week. Its also a good way to conditioning the scalp with your fav leave-in conditioner spray or my personal fav African Royale Braid Sheen or water with vegetable glycerin. It looks a little crazy when you first take the band off just give it a few minutes and the hair will settle. You won't even be able to tell. I usually pull the band out first thing in the morning. Try double or multiple sections when experimenting to assist in trying different pin up/up do styles. For example, divide twist in two section for a pin up in the front with back down.
I was being silly in this picture. But you get the idea!
I was being silly in this picture. But you get the idea!
Ask T-Money!!!
Did you have a natural hair question?
Question!!!
"I have been following your blog and its full of great information. I have been natural since '98 and never have been one for long hair.
Well now I have decided I want to start growing my hair but have run into a few obstacles and I am seeking some assistants. I have type 4C hair, tight coils and very, very thick. My main issue that I face is dryness, no matter what I use my hair continues to be dry and dull, plus I live in Michigan and the cold air does nothing for my hair but make it worse. I don't use shampoo and I co-wash no more that three times a week or when I see a build up. I am using Cocount Sublime Moisturize Conditioner & Clarifying Shampoo by Curls.
Do you have any suggestions how to retain moisture in my hair?"
Answer!!!
I understand that Michigan weather, I graduated h.s. in Illinois but anyway a good thing to do is keep your hair covered with a satin scarf until you get to work or your destination. Those below zero wind chills are horrible to the head. The kinkier, more curly your hair is the more porous it is. A good example of this is, to imagine your watering a plant with many holes in the flower pot. The more you water, the more water is lost. Your hair can only absorb so much moister at one time. It is critical to feed it when needed which may be daily.
Make sure all your products are free of sulfate, silicones, mineral oil and petroleum. For hair products keep it as natural as possible. (Silicones and their derivatives end in -cone.) These ingredients will strip oils or prevent absorption by clogging pores.
Do Not Neglect your Scalp. When cleansing focus on removing build up from the scalp. I recommend using a more gentler cleanser the Curlious Curls Cleansing Cream, it moisturizes more than the Clarifying Shampoo. Massage and stimulate your scalp while wet with your finger, wide tooth comb or a brush. Avoid towel drying and direct heat such as blow drying. (Hood Dryer are an acceptable tool.)
Deep condition your hair at least once a week with a conditioner high in protein such as Hair Mayo. Also do hot oil treatments with your favorite natural oil at least once a week. The Deep Conditioning and Hot Oil Treatment can be done at the same time.
When rinsing your head be careful not to rinse all of the conditioner out and do a cool shot at the end of every rinse. A cool shot is when you finish up your rinse with cool/cold water. This creates a shine and closes open pours to retain the natural moister of the water.
Apply a leave-in conditioner such as Cantu Shea Butter Repair Leave in Conditioner.
Invest in a daily creamy moisturizer or a hair butter such as a whipped shea butter or Carol's Daughter Hair Milk.
Protective styles are helpful such as braids, buns, finger coils and two strand twist. These styles can be refreshed with a mist of braid sheen.
A very small amount of hair polisher/glosser can be used to coat the hair.
It is very important to sleep on a satin pillow case or in a satin scarf/bonnet to retain moisture throughout the night.
You will notice a difference in how you hair feel after practicing these tips. Your hair will be shiny and softer and your curls may even loosen a little.
Deep Condition
Deep conditioning for me consist of Hair Mayo and Olive Oil. But tonight I did something different that made a huge difference. I sat under a hood dryer for about 15-20 mins. I had such great results that I will be sure to include this process in my regular regimen.
I know some of you are thinking "well yeeahh, duh". I know, I know! But usually I just leave the deep conditioner in for about a hour sometimes all night covered with a plastic cap. I started my hair later than a wanted tonight but still wanted an intense conditioning so I decide on more concentrated heat. The results were a lot better and less time.
I know some of you are thinking "well yeeahh, duh". I know, I know! But usually I just leave the deep conditioner in for about a hour sometimes all night covered with a plastic cap. I started my hair later than a wanted tonight but still wanted an intense conditioning so I decide on more concentrated heat. The results were a lot better and less time.
Healthy Press
I know that some natural ladies are totally against pressing or straightening the hair but its not as damaging as you may think if done only occasionally. It is true that heat in excessive is damaging. Heat can burn the hair which causes breakages. Also, as a result of heat damaged hair a lost of natural texture which presents itself as permanently straight pieces of hair. Heat straightening can be done at home but I recommend consulting a professional for best result. In the hair's straight state it is easier to see the current condition of your natural hair. You can observe the full length and thickness. Inspect your ends and remove any dead split ends more evenly. It also gives you another versatile look which was the reason you went natural anyway.
How do you straighten natural curly hair without chemicals?
We all know the old fashion way, a stove and a metal pressing/straightening comb. This method has been updated; you can purchase electric combs with temperature gauges.
A more up to date technique is to first blow dry the hair and then straightening with a flat iron. You achieve the best results with this method.
Preparation and Maintenance!!!
If your hair is not currently healthy a press would only increase the damage making the your mane more dry, frizzy, unmanageable, broken and the rest of the stuff we hate. Some signs that your hair can more than withstand the heat are shine, minimal breakage/shedding and great moisture retention. Identify the health of your curly state.
Secondly, consult an experienced natural hair professional. Preferably a recommended stylist. Don't be afraid to ask questions: what method/technique do you use, what products do you use (shampoo, conditioner, moisturizer, heat protection product) how do you recommend I maintain the press and the health of my hair... If you feel comfortable, like its a good match set your appointment.
Its ok to treat the hair the week or day prior to your appointment. I deep condition with hair mayo and olive oil after rinsing I coat with a hair butter to seal.
To maintain the press, wrap the hair with a satin scarf. I use my Denman Brush to wrap and unwrap my hair. If you don't know how to there are videos on Youtube.com. Protect this straight style with a silicone products. I love Chi Silk Infusion it smells good and works great to seal natural moisture and helps to prevent reversion. Also, consider oil sheen to add oil without wieghing your hair down. You must also take in consideration the climate and season of your environment. In hot, humid areas no sense in wasting your time or money, its almost impossible to keep your natural hair straight in the Summer and/or Spring months. The best time is the Winter and early part of the Fall months. Even in the cooler months its important to wait to you arrive at your destination before unwrapping in order to protect your hair and style.
Straight styles must remain dry any moister will cause the mane to revert back to its curly state. This means you can't wash or shampoo your hair. I leave my hair straight for about a week just because I can't go without cleansing longer than that. You also can not use moisturizers that may weigh down the hair or make it wet. You must limit physical activity that may cause sweating in your head. Be very careful in the shower it is best to wrap the hair prior and cover with a shower cap. Do not uncover or unwrap your hair in a steaming bathroom (its just a recipe for disaster).
I also wanted to add that its ok to do a mid-week touch up with the flat iron or curling iron. Notice I said mid-week not daily or every other day. If you don't like the way your hair is looking in between touch ups, improvise. You can use a couple of rollers in the top to add some volume and more bouncy curls. Use hair accessories to reinvent your style. Hair bands and fashion clips are great.
Enjoy the volume and body of your natural hair.
Another Post on Straightening Natural Hair:
Thanksgiving Press
Silkening
How do you straighten natural curly hair without chemicals?
We all know the old fashion way, a stove and a metal pressing/straightening comb. This method has been updated; you can purchase electric combs with temperature gauges.
A more up to date technique is to first blow dry the hair and then straightening with a flat iron. You achieve the best results with this method.
Preparation and Maintenance!!!
If your hair is not currently healthy a press would only increase the damage making the your mane more dry, frizzy, unmanageable, broken and the rest of the stuff we hate. Some signs that your hair can more than withstand the heat are shine, minimal breakage/shedding and great moisture retention. Identify the health of your curly state.
Secondly, consult an experienced natural hair professional. Preferably a recommended stylist. Don't be afraid to ask questions: what method/technique do you use, what products do you use (shampoo, conditioner, moisturizer, heat protection product) how do you recommend I maintain the press and the health of my hair... If you feel comfortable, like its a good match set your appointment.
Its ok to treat the hair the week or day prior to your appointment. I deep condition with hair mayo and olive oil after rinsing I coat with a hair butter to seal.
To maintain the press, wrap the hair with a satin scarf. I use my Denman Brush to wrap and unwrap my hair. If you don't know how to there are videos on Youtube.com. Protect this straight style with a silicone products. I love Chi Silk Infusion it smells good and works great to seal natural moisture and helps to prevent reversion. Also, consider oil sheen to add oil without wieghing your hair down. You must also take in consideration the climate and season of your environment. In hot, humid areas no sense in wasting your time or money, its almost impossible to keep your natural hair straight in the Summer and/or Spring months. The best time is the Winter and early part of the Fall months. Even in the cooler months its important to wait to you arrive at your destination before unwrapping in order to protect your hair and style.
Straight styles must remain dry any moister will cause the mane to revert back to its curly state. This means you can't wash or shampoo your hair. I leave my hair straight for about a week just because I can't go without cleansing longer than that. You also can not use moisturizers that may weigh down the hair or make it wet. You must limit physical activity that may cause sweating in your head. Be very careful in the shower it is best to wrap the hair prior and cover with a shower cap. Do not uncover or unwrap your hair in a steaming bathroom (its just a recipe for disaster).
I also wanted to add that its ok to do a mid-week touch up with the flat iron or curling iron. Notice I said mid-week not daily or every other day. If you don't like the way your hair is looking in between touch ups, improvise. You can use a couple of rollers in the top to add some volume and more bouncy curls. Use hair accessories to reinvent your style. Hair bands and fashion clips are great.
Enjoy the volume and body of your natural hair.
Another Post on Straightening Natural Hair:
Thanksgiving Press
Silkening
Here's a Tip!
My natural ladies there is no need to detangle or comb hair daily. But when you do Never Detangle dry hair! African American hair is natural porous and lose moisture fast. Hair is more manageable in a state of extreme moisture or when wet. So take your time. Part the wet hair in sections. Keep the hair that not being comb through in a hair clip or elastic pony tail holder. With a wide tooth comb, comb the hair in small section until entire head is detangled. This process also works for combing through product.
Hot Oil Treatment
A hot oil treatment is the process of adding warm oil to the hair and scalp. The purpose of the treatment is to ensure that the moisture from water is retained as well as to soothe dry scalp. It is very useful year round. The treatment can be done wet or dry but is more effective when done wet. Water is one of the best moisturizer and this process helps to utilize the moisture from the water naturally.
Tea Tree Oil, Olive Oil, Castor Oil, Sunflower Oil, Vitamin E, Jojoba Oil and Many Other Oils.
You can use either one of those oils and there are others not listed. Keep in mind that the hot oil treatment requires about an ounce of oil depending on the length of your hair which is a good amount of oil per treatment. You don't need to completely saturate your head with oil. This will do more harm than good because the oil is not a source of moisture but a moisture retaining tool. I personally use olive oil because its one of the least expensive natural oils. You can use it as a carrier oil for essential oils such as peppermint, lemon grass, lavendar and etc for their fragrances or beneficiary properties.
How its done?
Prepare the water bath for the oil.
Boil about a cup of water. Pour about an ounce of oil in a smaller bowl, cup, or plastic bottle. After the water has started boiling remove it from the heat. Place the oil container in the water container for about 2-5 mins or until warm. Add the warm oil to wet clean scalp and hair. Rub in and comb through with a wide tooth comb. Cover head with Saran Wrap or plastic shower cap without heat for about 20 to 30 mins . If you sit under a hood dryer 5 to 15 mins while head is still covered. Rinse out excessive oil with warm water. If you wash hair with shampoo or shampoo alternatives you will negate the hot oil treatment.
How often is it done?
It really depends on your hair type. If you have dry hair once a week. Fine hair once every two weeks or once a month. Hot oil treatments in excess will not harm your hair if done correctly.
Questions
Did you have a natural hair question?
QUESTION!
got a BIG question for you about my hair.
Soooo.... I went natural over a year ago, and so far...it is getting better as I enter the 2nd year, but I messed up badly. I got my hair braided and weaved with the exception of the very top front of my hair where I wanted the girl to weave in my bangs like my beautician always did for me.
The young girl (My sister's friend, she is 17 and just getting into the midst of doing hair) told me that she didn't know how to sew in bangs, so she parted my hair and glued in my bangs...fortunately, my hair no longer takes to glue, so my sweat and curly roots made it come out in less than three days...but, I didn't have any money on me to go to my beautician to help me put in my bangs, so I began to manage my open and exposed natural hair with my home products. I normally use a protective chrome iron on my hair, but my sister took that one to school...so I used the regular metal plug in iron on my hair to curl my bangs...several times....and when one of the braids came loose on my weave a few weeks ago to the bottom left side of my hair, my sweat from working out got on it and tried to braid it back up...so now...when I took my weave and braids out...I washed my hair... and I noticed these two big and tall patches of long hair that would not curl back at all (Looks like I used a perm or something on two different parts of my hair, LOL)! Of course the simple solution is to cut it and blend in my curly roots with the rest of my hair...but my hair in thoes sections are pressed out so close to the roots that cutting both patches of fried hair will result in a very hetic hair situation for me. So I am wondering if I need to keep my hair braided up completely for the next few months, and then cut off the dead hair..or what? Let me know what you think I should do...for now, I am chilling with my wig until get to the hair shop later this month. Thanks honey! Peace!!!
ANSWER!
No more amateurs in your head. Ok?!
Well, I think you have learned a very valuable lesson in regards to how sensitive and fragile natural hair really is.
You are doing the right things as far as wearing a wig when you go out but I'm sure you know its not a good idea to workout with a wig on your head. We don't even want to talk about the bacteria, dirt and sweat that are growing and festering under there. Its a breeding grow for diaster. Just bad for business.
So for the straight pieces of natural hair, sometimes with time and nourishing product the hair will repair itself as it grows out. But until then, since you work out often I suggest transitional styles that mask the straighter texture of hair. These styles include roller sets, straw sets, two strand twist and/or braids. Two strand twists and braids provide more versatility and longvity. When you do these styles you can were them as is and then in the middle of the week take them down and you have a brand new style. You can always twist the front into a design and have the back in braids or twist and take them down towards the end of the week.
Be careful with braids or kinky twist with hair extensions. Sometimes the tightness and the friction of the extension can break your natural hair. Also, be mindful of your hair products such as shampoos. The harsh detergents in shampoos can sometimes make straight hair straighter. As your hair recovers try the "NO POO" method.
Answer
QUESTION!
got a BIG question for you about my hair.
Soooo.... I went natural over a year ago, and so far...it is getting better as I enter the 2nd year, but I messed up badly. I got my hair braided and weaved with the exception of the very top front of my hair where I wanted the girl to weave in my bangs like my beautician always did for me.
The young girl (My sister's friend, she is 17 and just getting into the midst of doing hair) told me that she didn't know how to sew in bangs, so she parted my hair and glued in my bangs...fortunately, my hair no longer takes to glue, so my sweat and curly roots made it come out in less than three days...but, I didn't have any money on me to go to my beautician to help me put in my bangs, so I began to manage my open and exposed natural hair with my home products. I normally use a protective chrome iron on my hair, but my sister took that one to school...so I used the regular metal plug in iron on my hair to curl my bangs...several times....and when one of the braids came loose on my weave a few weeks ago to the bottom left side of my hair, my sweat from working out got on it and tried to braid it back up...so now...when I took my weave and braids out...I washed my hair... and I noticed these two big and tall patches of long hair that would not curl back at all (Looks like I used a perm or something on two different parts of my hair, LOL)! Of course the simple solution is to cut it and blend in my curly roots with the rest of my hair...but my hair in thoes sections are pressed out so close to the roots that cutting both patches of fried hair will result in a very hetic hair situation for me. So I am wondering if I need to keep my hair braided up completely for the next few months, and then cut off the dead hair..or what? Let me know what you think I should do...for now, I am chilling with my wig until get to the hair shop later this month. Thanks honey! Peace!!!
ANSWER!
No more amateurs in your head. Ok?!
Well, I think you have learned a very valuable lesson in regards to how sensitive and fragile natural hair really is.
You are doing the right things as far as wearing a wig when you go out but I'm sure you know its not a good idea to workout with a wig on your head. We don't even want to talk about the bacteria, dirt and sweat that are growing and festering under there. Its a breeding grow for diaster. Just bad for business.
So for the straight pieces of natural hair, sometimes with time and nourishing product the hair will repair itself as it grows out. But until then, since you work out often I suggest transitional styles that mask the straighter texture of hair. These styles include roller sets, straw sets, two strand twist and/or braids. Two strand twists and braids provide more versatility and longvity. When you do these styles you can were them as is and then in the middle of the week take them down and you have a brand new style. You can always twist the front into a design and have the back in braids or twist and take them down towards the end of the week.
Be careful with braids or kinky twist with hair extensions. Sometimes the tightness and the friction of the extension can break your natural hair. Also, be mindful of your hair products such as shampoos. The harsh detergents in shampoos can sometimes make straight hair straighter. As your hair recovers try the "NO POO" method.
Answer
No More Shampoo! (No Poo Method)
WHAT'S THE TRUTH ABOUT THE "NO POO" METHOD?
After shampooing your hair is it brittle, hard and tangled? Frizzy?! You have to use tons of hair oil/moisturizer but still it doesn't recover to the previous state.
Well, you should concern the "NO POO" method. Instead of using shampoo as your cleansing agent baking soda/apple cider vinegar, just plain old hair conditioner (co-wash) or a milder, more gentler shampoo are used as alternatives. Gentle shampoos include castile soap, glycerin and/or a sulfate-free shampoo. Baking soda/apple cider vinegar* and hair conditioner are cleansing agents that DO NOT lather. This means no foamy, sud bubbles but they're not necessary to effectively clean the hair. (Hair conditioners contain mild detergents that cleanse and can used to cleanse by itself.)
After shampooing your hair is it brittle, hard and tangled? Frizzy?! You have to use tons of hair oil/moisturizer but still it doesn't recover to the previous state.
Well, you should concern the "NO POO" method. Instead of using shampoo as your cleansing agent baking soda/apple cider vinegar, just plain old hair conditioner (co-wash) or a milder, more gentler shampoo are used as alternatives. Gentle shampoos include castile soap, glycerin and/or a sulfate-free shampoo. Baking soda/apple cider vinegar* and hair conditioner are cleansing agents that DO NOT lather. This means no foamy, sud bubbles but they're not necessary to effectively clean the hair. (Hair conditioners contain mild detergents that cleanse and can used to cleanse by itself.)
*baking soda and apple cider neutralize each other to maintain the natural pH of the hair. Rinse thoroughly with water.
WHY THE "NO POO" METHOD?
Shampoo contain harsh detergents to form those lathering bubbles that so many have become accustom to. These same detergents can be found in degreasers and other almost all household products such as dish soap, laundry detergent, toothpaste and etc. So why put that in your head.
First and most importantly, to clean without stripping the hair of its own natural oils that not only nourishes the hair but also the scalp. African American generally produce limited amounts of their natural oils and this is why we add moisturizer to our hair. Hair in its natural state needs a little more moisture than chemically straighten hair to maintain its health and prevent breakage. This is also why it is important to retain this moister. Your natural hair oil prevents frizzness and tangles. Which leads us to the second reason.
Secondly, it eliminates frizzness in turn leaving more curls or coils definition in the hair. Your hair has more elasticity which decrease breakage. Your hair is more manageable in its natural curly state.
Thirdly, the hair and scalp are cleaner. Shampoos leave residues of harsh detergents that remain on the hair shaft and clog the hair pores. For those of us who have dry scalp and dandruff; no shampoo helps to wipe out flaky, itchy scalp completely the sulfate and alcohol in the shampoos can only aid to the problems.
Lastly, you use less product to achieve your desired style. The scalp pores and hair shaft have the ability to absorb these product more readily to obtain maximum coverage. The product also last longer in the hair because the hair is not dying of thirst.
The hair appears to be so much healthier and easier to manage. The hair is not as big or more tamed. Keep in mind you may not see result after one use. I recommend you try for about 3 weeks before you write the method off as a failure.
IF "NO POO" THEN WHAT?
This material courtesy of the MotownGirl.com "No Poo" article. Here are shampoo alternatives.
• Mix 1 tablespoon of baking soda to 1 cup of warm water (use 1 tbs to 2 cups of warm water). For longer hair, use 2-3 tbs of baking soda with 32 oz of warm water. You can place the mixture in a spray bottle or just pour it over your hair. Massage it in, rinse out well and use a conditioner afterwards. (I mix it in a cup and pour it over my head over the sink and I always deep condition after using this treatment.) It makes my hair feel so clean without that dry, squeaky feeling. The mixture is liquidity - not pasty. (Note - I find this cleanse my hair the best.)
• Mix a little baking soda with your conditioner.
• Use a 'clarifying conditioner', such as VO5 Kiwi & Lime.
• Use an Apple Cider Vinegar mix.
• If you need to exfoliate your scalp or combat itchiness, try a Scalp Scrub: Mix 2 tbs conditioner with 1 tbs brown sugar. It is not harsh or abrasive as it may sound. Don't use regular sugar, it will just dissolve.
WHY THE "NO POO" METHOD?
Shampoo contain harsh detergents to form those lathering bubbles that so many have become accustom to. These same detergents can be found in degreasers and other almost all household products such as dish soap, laundry detergent, toothpaste and etc. So why put that in your head.
First and most importantly, to clean without stripping the hair of its own natural oils that not only nourishes the hair but also the scalp. African American generally produce limited amounts of their natural oils and this is why we add moisturizer to our hair. Hair in its natural state needs a little more moisture than chemically straighten hair to maintain its health and prevent breakage. This is also why it is important to retain this moister. Your natural hair oil prevents frizzness and tangles. Which leads us to the second reason.
Secondly, it eliminates frizzness in turn leaving more curls or coils definition in the hair. Your hair has more elasticity which decrease breakage. Your hair is more manageable in its natural curly state.
Thirdly, the hair and scalp are cleaner. Shampoos leave residues of harsh detergents that remain on the hair shaft and clog the hair pores. For those of us who have dry scalp and dandruff; no shampoo helps to wipe out flaky, itchy scalp completely the sulfate and alcohol in the shampoos can only aid to the problems.
Lastly, you use less product to achieve your desired style. The scalp pores and hair shaft have the ability to absorb these product more readily to obtain maximum coverage. The product also last longer in the hair because the hair is not dying of thirst.
The hair appears to be so much healthier and easier to manage. The hair is not as big or more tamed. Keep in mind you may not see result after one use. I recommend you try for about 3 weeks before you write the method off as a failure.
IF "NO POO" THEN WHAT?
This material courtesy of the MotownGirl.com "No Poo" article. Here are shampoo alternatives.
• Mix 1 tablespoon of baking soda to 1 cup of warm water (use 1 tbs to 2 cups of warm water). For longer hair, use 2-3 tbs of baking soda with 32 oz of warm water. You can place the mixture in a spray bottle or just pour it over your hair. Massage it in, rinse out well and use a conditioner afterwards. (I mix it in a cup and pour it over my head over the sink and I always deep condition after using this treatment.) It makes my hair feel so clean without that dry, squeaky feeling. The mixture is liquidity - not pasty. (Note - I find this cleanse my hair the best.)
• Mix a little baking soda with your conditioner.
• Use a 'clarifying conditioner', such as VO5 Kiwi & Lime.
• Use an Apple Cider Vinegar mix.
• If you need to exfoliate your scalp or combat itchiness, try a Scalp Scrub: Mix 2 tbs conditioner with 1 tbs brown sugar. It is not harsh or abrasive as it may sound. Don't use regular sugar, it will just dissolve.
Curl Definition
- Curl Definition
Tools
- Blow dryer with Diffuser or hood dryer
- Denman brush optional
- Leave-in Conditioner
- Creamy Moisturizer (Shealoe)
- Hair Oil
Tips
• Cleanse hair as usually with creaming cleansing or conditioner in the shower. (Shampoos can cause frizzness)
• Condition hair with your favorite conditioner. Rinse hair but do not rinse all the conditioner out.
• DO NOT towel dry, ring or shake excess water out (depending on hair length) allow to drip dry.
• Be Careful not to disturb the natural curl pattern.
• Apply leave-in conditioner from root to tip. Apply moistururizer in the same way.
• Style as desired
• To minimize curl shrinkage seat under the hair dryer or blow dry with diffuser.
• To get the full length of your hair you can stretch out section and apply heat by blow dryer no need for the diffuser for this.
• Carefully apply a glosser in hair or spray oil sheen**.
*Sometimes I use a plain t-shirt.
The posted video is from hairrules.com and I recommend the technique used in the video.
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