Showing posts with label hair maintence. Show all posts
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Winterizing your Hair!!!


Well, its that time again. Time to bundle up. So how do you protect your hair in the winter months. What tools do you need?

Winter Hair Survival Kit:

Sulfate Free/No Subs Shampoo or Cleansing Cream
Creamy Moisturizer
Hair Oil
Deep Conditioning Method
Hot Oil Treatment
Satin pillow case/scarf

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Natural Hair 101 -What Every Women with Natural Hair Needs To Know!!!


Hair Tools

Tools include a wide tooth comb and Denman Brush which optional but I feel necessary. If your hair is short you can very easily manages curls by finger combing.

If your hair is medium length or long you'll need hair clips such as duck bill clips to section the hair for detangling and styling. Hair Accessories are a necessity.

Cleansing

Shampooing with shampoos that contain harsh detergents such as sodium lauryl sulfate or laureth sulfate can be drying and should only be used maybe once a month (if at all). In the meantime you can use baking soda and apple cider vinegar (dilute & rinse well with water) or just use a conditioner for a co-wash. There are some natural shampoos such as glycerin based shampoo or Castile soap but I still do not recommend the use of these products on a daily basis.

As well as cleansing creams such as Curls Cleansing Cream which is very gentle and moisturizes instead of removing natural hair oils. These gentle cleanser can be used daily if you prefered.

Deep Condition

Should be done about once a week or every two weeks with a deep conditioner such as Hair Mayonnaise and/or Olive oil as a hot oil treatment.

Moisturize

Use Shea butter and good a leave-in conditioner I recommend Giovanni products. Creamy moisturizer such as Carol's Daughter Hair Milk is great for all types of hair and a curl aid. I spray a little braid sheen or water with olive oil and vegetable glyerin in my hair daily.

At Night

Make sure you sleep on a satin or silk pillow case or tie your hair up with
satin or silk scarf/bonnet. This is help you retain moisture and keep hair from snagging and then breaking.

Ask T-Money!!!

Did you have a natural hair question?

Question!!!

"I have been following your blog and its full of great information. I have been natural since '98 and never have been one for long hair.

Well now I have decided I want to start growing my hair but have run into a few obstacles and I am seeking some assistants. I have type 4C hair, tight coils and very, very thick. My main issue that I face is dryness, no matter what I use my hair continues to be dry and dull, plus I live in Michigan and the cold air does nothing for my hair but make it worse. I don't use shampoo and I co-wash no more that three times a week or when I see a build up. I am using Cocount Sublime Moisturize Conditioner & Clarifying Shampoo by Curls.

Do you have any suggestions how to retain moisture in my hair?"


Answer!!!

I understand that Michigan weather, I graduated h.s. in Illinois but anyway a good thing to do is keep your hair covered with a satin scarf until you get to work or your destination. Those below zero wind chills are horrible to the head. The kinkier, more curly your hair is the more porous it is. A good example of this is, to imagine your watering a plant with many holes in the flower pot. The more you water, the more water is lost. Your hair can only absorb so much moister at one time. It is critical to feed it when needed which may be daily.

Make sure all your products are free of sulfate, silicones, mineral oil and petroleum. For hair products keep it as natural as possible. (Silicones and their derivatives end in -cone.) These ingredients will strip oils or prevent absorption by clogging pores.

Do Not Neglect your Scalp. When cleansing focus on removing build up from the scalp. I recommend using a more gentler cleanser the
Curlious Curls Cleansing Cream, it moisturizes more than the Clarifying Shampoo. Massage and stimulate your scalp while wet with your finger, wide tooth comb or a brush. Avoid towel drying and direct heat such as blow drying. (Hood Dryer are an acceptable tool.)

Deep condition your hair at least once a week with a conditioner high in protein such as Hair Mayo. Also do hot oil treatments with your favorite natural oil at least once a week. The Deep Conditioning and Hot Oil Treatment can be done at the same time.

When rinsing your head be careful not to rinse all of the conditioner out and do a cool shot at the end of every rinse. A cool shot is when you finish up your rinse with cool/cold water. This creates a shine and closes open pours to retain the natural moister of the water.

Apply a leave-in conditioner such as Cantu Shea Butter Repair Leave in Conditioner.

Invest in a daily creamy moisturizer or a hair butter such as a whipped shea butter or Carol's Daughter Hair Milk.

Protective styles are helpful such as braids, buns, finger coils and two strand twist. These styles can be refreshed with a mist of braid sheen.

A very small amount of hair polisher/glosser can be used to coat the hair.

It is very important to sleep on a satin pillow case or in a satin scarf/bonnet to retain moisture throughout the night.

You will notice a difference in how you hair feel after practicing these tips. Your hair will be shiny and softer and your curls may even loosen a little.

Healthy Press

I know that some natural ladies are totally against pressing or straightening the hair but its not as damaging as you may think if done only occasionally. It is true that heat in excessive is damaging. Heat can burn the hair which causes breakages. Also, as a result of heat damaged hair a lost of natural texture which presents itself as permanently straight pieces of hair. Heat straightening can be done at home but I recommend consulting a professional for best result. In the hair's straight state it is easier to see the current condition of your natural hair. You can observe the full length and thickness. Inspect your ends and remove any dead split ends more evenly. It also gives you another versatile look which was the reason you went natural anyway.



How do you straighten natural curly hair without chemicals?



We all know the old fashion way, a stove and a metal pressing/straightening comb. This method has been updated; you can purchase electric combs with temperature gauges.



A more up to date technique is to first blow dry the hair and then straightening with a flat iron. You achieve the best results with this method.



Preparation and Maintenance!!!



If your hair is not currently healthy a press would only increase the damage making the your mane more dry, frizzy, unmanageable, broken and the rest of the stuff we hate. Some signs that your hair can more than withstand the heat are shine, minimal breakage/shedding and great moisture retention. Identify the health of your curly state.

Secondly, consult an experienced natural hair professional. Preferably a recommended stylist. Don't be afraid to ask questions: what method/technique do you use, what products do you use (shampoo, conditioner, moisturizer, heat protection product) how do you recommend I maintain the press and the health of my hair... If you feel comfortable, like its a good match set your appointment.


Its ok to treat the hair the week or day prior to your appointment. I deep condition with hair mayo and olive oil after rinsing I coat with a hair butter to seal.


To maintain the press, wrap the hair with a satin scarf. I use my Denman Brush to wrap and unwrap my hair. If you don't know how to there are videos on Youtube.com. Protect this straight style with a silicone products. I love Chi Silk Infusion it smells good and works great to seal natural moisture and helps to prevent reversion. Also, consider oil sheen to add oil without wieghing your hair down. You must also take in consideration the climate and season of your environment. In hot, humid areas no sense in wasting your time or money, its almost impossible to keep your natural hair straight in the Summer and/or Spring months. The best time is the Winter and early part of the Fall months. Even in the cooler months its important to wait to you arrive at your destination before unwrapping in order to protect your hair and style.

Straight styles must remain dry any moister will cause the mane to revert back to its curly state. This means you can't wash or shampoo your hair. I leave my hair straight for about a week just because I can't go without cleansing longer than that. You also can not use moisturizers that may weigh down the hair or make it wet. You must limit physical activity that may cause sweating in your head. Be very careful in the shower it is best to wrap the hair prior and cover with a shower cap. Do not uncover or unwrap your hair in a steaming bathroom (its just a recipe for disaster).

I also wanted to add that its ok to do a mid-week touch up with the flat iron or curling iron. Notice I said mid-week not daily or every other day. If you don't like the way your hair is looking in between touch ups, improvise. You can use a couple of rollers in the top to add some volume and more bouncy curls. Use hair accessories to reinvent your style. Hair bands and fashion clips are great.

Enjoy the volume and body of your natural hair.


Another Post on Straightening Natural Hair:
Thanksgiving Press
Silkening



Hot Oil Treatment


A hot oil treatment is the process of adding warm oil to the hair and scalp. The purpose of the treatment is to ensure that the moisture from water is retained as well as to soothe dry scalp. It is very useful year round. The treatment can be done wet or dry but is more effective when done wet. Water is one of the best moisturizer and this process helps to utilize the moisture from the water naturally.

Tea Tree Oil, Olive Oil, Castor Oil, Sunflower Oil, Vitamin E, Jojoba Oil and Many Other Oils.

You can use either one of those oils and there are others not listed. Keep in mind that the hot oil treatment requires about an ounce of oil depending on the length of your hair which is a good amount of oil per treatment. You don't need to completely saturate your head with oil. This will do more harm than good because the oil is not a source of moisture but a moisture retaining tool. I personally use olive oil because its one of the least expensive natural oils. You can use it as a carrier oil for essential oils such as peppermint, lemon grass, lavendar and etc for their fragrances or beneficiary properties.

How its done?

Prepare the water bath for the oil.

Boil about a cup of water. Pour about an ounce of oil in a smaller bowl, cup, or plastic bottle. After the water has started boiling remove it from the heat. Place the oil container in the water container for about 2-5 mins or until warm. Add the warm oil to wet clean scalp and hair. Rub in and comb through with a wide tooth comb. Cover head with Saran Wrap or plastic shower cap without heat for about 20 to 30 mins . If you sit under a hood dryer 5 to 15 mins while head is still covered. Rinse out excessive oil with warm water. If you wash hair with shampoo or shampoo alternatives you will negate the hot oil treatment.

How often is it done?

It really depends on your hair type. If you have dry hair once a week. Fine hair once every two weeks or once a month. Hot oil treatments in excess will not harm your hair if done correctly.



Questions

Did you have a natural hair question?

QUESTION!

got a BIG question for you about my hair.

Soooo.... I went natural over a year ago, and so far...it is getting better as I enter the 2nd year, but I messed up badly. I got my hair braided and weaved with the exception of the very top front of my hair where I wanted the girl to weave in my bangs like my beautician always did for me.

The young girl (My sister's friend, she is 17 and just getting into the midst of doing hair) told me that she didn't know how to sew in bangs, so she parted my hair and glued in my bangs...fortunately, my hair no longer takes to glue, so my sweat and curly roots made it come out in less than three days...but, I didn't have any money on me to go to my beautician to help me put in my bangs, so I began to manage my open and exposed natural hair with my home products. I normally use a protective chrome iron on my hair, but my sister took that one to school...so I used the regular metal plug in iron on my hair to curl my bangs...several times....and when one of the braids came loose on my weave a few weeks ago to the bottom left side of my hair, my sweat from working out got on it and tried to braid it back up...so now...when I took my weave and braids out...I washed my hair... and I noticed these two big and tall patches of long hair that would not curl back at all (Looks like I used a perm or something on two different parts of my hair, LOL)! Of course the simple solution is to cut it and blend in my curly roots with the rest of my hair...but my hair in thoes sections are pressed out so close to the roots that cutting both patches of fried hair will result in a very hetic hair situation for me. So I am wondering if I need to keep my hair braided up completely for the next few months, and then cut off the dead hair..or what? Let me know what you think I should do...for now, I am chilling with my wig until get to the hair shop later this month. Thanks honey! Peace!!!


ANSWER!

No more amateurs in your head. Ok?!



Well, I think you have learned a very valuable lesson in regards to how sensitive and fragile natural hair really is.



You are doing the right things as far as wearing a wig when you go out but I'm sure you know its not a good idea to workout with a wig on your head. We don't even want to talk about the bacteria, dirt and sweat that are growing and festering under there. Its a breeding grow for diaster. Just bad for business.



So for the straight pieces of natural hair, sometimes with time and nourishing product the hair will repair itself as it grows out. But until then, since you work out often I suggest transitional styles that mask the straighter texture of hair. These styles include roller sets, straw sets, two strand twist and/or braids. Two strand twists and braids provide more versatility and longvity. When you do these styles you can were them as is and then in the middle of the week take them down and you have a brand new style. You can always twist the front into a design and have the back in braids or twist and take them down towards the end of the week.



Be careful with braids or kinky twist with hair extensions. Sometimes the tightness and the friction of the extension can break your natural hair. Also, be mindful of your hair products such as shampoos. The harsh detergents in shampoos can sometimes make straight hair straighter. As your hair recovers try the "NO POO" method.

Answer

No More Shampoo! (No Poo Method)


WHAT'S THE TRUTH ABOUT THE "NO POO" METHOD?

After shampooing your hair is it brittle, hard and tangled? Frizzy?! You have to use tons of hair oil/moisturizer but still it doesn't recover to the previous state.

Well, you should concern the "NO POO" method. Instead of using shampoo as your cleansing agent baking soda/apple cider vinegar, just plain old hair conditioner (co-wash) or a milder, more gentler shampoo are used as alternatives. Gentle shampoos include castile soap, glycerin and/or a sulfate-free shampoo. Baking soda/apple cider vinegar* and hair conditioner are cleansing agents that DO NOT lather. This means no foamy, sud bubbles but they're not necessary to effectively clean the hair. (Hair conditioners contain mild detergents that cleanse and can used to cleanse by itself.)
*baking soda and apple cider neutralize each other to maintain the natural pH of the hair. Rinse thoroughly with water.

WHY THE "NO POO" METHOD?

Shampoo contain harsh detergents to form those lathering bubbles that so many have become accustom to. These same detergents can be found in degreasers and other almost all household products such as dish soap, laundry detergent, toothpaste and etc. So why put that in your head.
First and most importantly, to clean without stripping the hair of its own natural oils that not only nourishes the hair but also the scalp. African American generally produce limited amounts of their natural oils and this is why we add moisturizer to our hair. Hair in its natural state needs a little more moisture than chemically straighten hair to maintain its health and prevent breakage. This is also why it is important to retain this moister. Your natural hair oil prevents frizzness and tangles. Which leads us to the second reason.

Secondly, it eliminates frizzness in turn leaving more curls or coils definition in the hair. Your hair has more elasticity which decrease breakage. Your hair is more manageable in its natural curly state.

Thirdly, the hair and scalp are cleaner. Shampoos leave residues of harsh detergents that remain on the hair shaft and clog the hair pores. For those of us who have dry scalp and dandruff; no shampoo helps to wipe out flaky, itchy scalp completely the sulfate and alcohol in the shampoos can only aid to the problems.

Lastly, you use less product to achieve your desired style. The scalp pores and hair shaft have the ability to absorb these product more readily to obtain maximum coverage. The product also last longer in the hair because the hair is not dying of thirst.

The hair appears to be so much healthier and easier to manage. The hair is not as big or more tamed. Keep in mind you may not see result after one use. I recommend you try for about 3 weeks before you write the method off as a failure.

IF "NO POO" THEN WHAT?

This material courtesy of the MotownGirl.com "No Poo" article. Here are shampoo alternatives.

• Mix 1 tablespoon of baking soda to 1 cup of warm water (use 1 tbs to 2 cups of warm water). For longer hair, use 2-3 tbs of baking soda with 32 oz of warm water. You can place the mixture in a spray bottle or just pour it over your hair. Massage it in, rinse out well and use a conditioner afterwards. (I mix it in a cup and pour it over my head over the sink and I always deep condition after using this treatment.) It makes my hair feel so clean without that dry, squeaky feeling. The mixture is liquidity - not pasty. (Note - I find this cleanse my hair the best.)
• Mix a little baking soda with your conditioner.
• Use a 'clarifying conditioner', such as VO5 Kiwi & Lime.
• Use an Apple Cider Vinegar mix.
• If you need to exfoliate your scalp or combat itchiness, try a Scalp Scrub: Mix 2 tbs conditioner with 1 tbs brown sugar. It is not harsh or abrasive as it may sound. Don't use regular sugar, it will just dissolve.