Its funny to me how your confidence can bring out the ugly 'Green Monster' in the insecure. Let me give you an example.
One Friday I decide to 'fro out' for work. So one of my co worker's response was something like "what's WRONG with your hair?". I really didn't think anything of it because its a typical response. I just said "I'm natural!" sarcastically. Everyone else loved my hair. I think its the confidence I exude when fro-ed out that's attractive.
This is the same girl who said "I can't go natural". "It looks good on you and you do so much with it." You don't realize how much your confidence can bring out others insecurity.
If you are confidence enough to wear your natural, understand that's a gift in itself.