Professionals Keep It Kinky-Ms. Silky Coils

Display Name  Ms. Silky Coils (blogspot), efficient1 (twitter) or Lainey May (facebook)

 

Age (or age range): i'm a PROUD 30 yr old. lol

Degrees: BA in Special and Elementary Education and MA in Higher Education Administration, SOON pursuing a Doctorate

Industry: Education, Consulting

Title: Director, Student Diversity Programs
 
Questions

1. Based on your profession and corporate culture, what were your primary concerns about wearing natural hair in the workplace? How did you overcome them?

Honestly, all those who see me in my work environment knew me with long STRAIGHT luxurious HEALTHY hair.  While I did not consider their feelings when deciding if this journey was right for me, I did wonder how they would react.  Also, would I get "in trouble" for not having "controllable" hair.  I work in a conservative environment (and am a little conservative myself when it comes to the work place) so I knew that the new look would be a lot for them. Lol.

The students and all my true co-worker/friends loved the new look.  From the BC to now being over a year natural they have been supportive. Honestly, I have inspired students to consider going natural AND for those who were in fact natural but doing the "societal styles" of weaving and straightening to recognize the beauty they had in them all this time and be more daring with wearing their natural hair (styles).

There was no real overcoming of the professional environment and what they thought of my hair.  While I was a little nervous, I knew no one would say anything to me. Lol. Even when I was not that confident, I walked with my head high and my confidence rubbed off I guess.  I know get NOTHING but compliments :)

2. How did your co-workers, clients and boss respond when you revealed your new do?

 
Well my true friends (who are co-workers) always has and still love my new look.  For the others, they complimented me on my braids (while transitioning) and every once in awhile will say something about my fro.  My boss....to this day STILL hasn't said a word. Lol.  But I think that has to do with our policy's on discrimination, harassment and hostile work environment...but trust I know he noticed. HA

3. Has your performance been rewarded since you’ve been natural? If not, do you believe your hair has been a factor? Any regrets?

 
Considering I am very good at my what I do, how I do AND I'm totally committed/passionate about my professional, I've been and will continue to be rewarded.  I don't think my hair has anything to do with this, but I will say the increase in confidence and inspiration that I found IN ME helps me to better do my job.  So in that essence, I think going natural has made me a better representative of my particular company.

4. What advice would you offer a professional peer who’s on the fence about going natural?

 
First and foremost (like anything), its a commitment...especially if this is your first time.  Once you make the decision, encourage yourself SPEAK OVER YOURSELF (yes like the gospel song) and remember that God created you in his image.  You do not have to conform to society OR to what your family, friends or even co-workers think you should be.  If you are not confident in yourself, this journey will be rough BUT even then you can still be victorious...for their will be some mountains to battle....but know that you can go threw them without a scratch ....not avoid them (go around).
This blog, along with others (like mine, that can be found at www.theorakale25.blogspot.com) are also good to help with daily/weekly encouragement...but remember you have to be stirred up inside to not only make the decision, stick with it and then ENJOY YOUR NEW LOOK AND LIFE!